Is Anal sex really worth it?

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The anus is a part of the excretory system whereas the vagina is a part of the reproductory system. An anus is not designed for the penetration of a large object like a penis. As there is a lot of nerves end in the anus, the stimulation of these nerves can be pleasant but risks of pain and discomfort are substantial compared to pleasure. Anal sex is becoming a trend. But it is not good for everyone.

As a man, you would not feel better by inserting your penis in the vagina than the anus. A vagina is designed to have sex. You can feel the sensation of tightness across the entire penis while having vaginal sex. You can not get the same feeling in anal sex as the anal is more like a ring. Men want to have anal sex not because it feels better than vaginal but to have a new experience.

Anal sex could be pleasant feelings for both women and receiver men as there are many sensitive nerves in the anus and stimulating them can be good feelings. Anal sex may stimulate the clitoris from the inside which can result in even orgasm.

People also practiced anal sex in ancient Egypt and some countries in South America. There were two purposes of anal sex at that time. Some people used it as an alternative to birth control. Men also performed anal sex when women had menstruation.

Anal sex is becoming mainstream. More and more people are trying this. Anal sex is not so controversial like BDSM. The survey finds that 42% of women have sometimes tried it. But it does not mean that they like it. Some women like, some don’t. Some women don’t like it but do it anyway because of pressure from men.

The nerves of the anus are sensitive. Sticking a penis inside it can be a pleasure but it also can be very painful.

The vagina has natural lubricants. A vagina expands and lubricated when it is aroused. A vagina can easily accommodate a large penis. But an anus does not expand or gets wet during penetration. A lot of lubricants should be used for anal penetration. Otherwise, it could be painful.

An anus contains a lot of small and strong muscles. Women don’t relax muscles often. Not all women can relax the muscles of the anus. There is no place for a large penis in the anus. Anal penetration is therefor painful most of the time. Frictions during intercourse can tear off some muscles and skins.

If a woman really decides to have anal sex, he should practice a long time to relax muscles. It is better to practice with smaller objects to insert n anus. It can be a pinky or butt plugs.

For men, anal sex receivers can enjoy more than women. Men have P spot in the anus that is equivalent to the G spot.  Men can get an orgasm through prostate stimulation during anal sex. For women, anal sex is not so pleasant.

Obaidul Karim Khan

Danish small business owner, sexuality educator, blogger, founder of this site. Top writer on Quora and Medium. Provide sex education and counseling. as a volunteer. I follow always the latest research about sex