Hook-up sex is more intense and exciting than lovemaking

Sex feels better when it’s raw. Romantic love is an abstract feeling. Romance does not help much for sexual pleasure. Sex is good when it’s intense and vulgar. Love songs in the background don’t give raw excitement. Dirty talks enhance sexual pleasure. Romantic emotions are necessary for a relationship but during sex, it is better to be wild than romantic.

Love and romance have very big importance in our life. Many love songs and poems have eternal abstract values. But you have to keep those emotions aside when you have sex.

Sex is not an emotion; it is a biological urge like hunger and thirst. You should better do it like a beast-dirty and vulgar.

You can make love in a romantic way. You can light candles and tune love songs. You dance with your partner beside a roaring fire and of course. Then you tell her how much you love and make love to her.

Alternatively, you take her clothes off when she comes wearing a sexy dress, and throw her on the sofa. You show her your erected penis and tell her “ I want to fuck your wet pussy ” She replies “Put your big dick inside my pussy, fuck me like a slut now” You two make wild sex without candles and love song.

You will enjoy the second way.

Love, mutual devotion and sincerity give security and stability in a relationship. But those things don’t help when you have sex

For physical pleasure, you need a good fuck, you don’t have to sing a love song. Compassion and devotion are good, abstract values are necessary  but those don’t  make you sexually aroused

If you want a good fuck, then don’t compliment your partner with a bunch of roses. Don’t talk about romance, just talk about fuck. Praise her body, how sexy she is. Tell her in which positions you want to fuck, how you want to spray your cum.

Both of you will be aroused only by verbal interactions. Dirty words are the best foreplay. When you two exchange” dirty words” you will find your dick gets hard and she will be wet.

Sexual intercourse is primitive and raw. Sex had existed before humans started writing poems. Sex is good when it is vulgar and intense. Romantic emotions undermine sexual pleasure.

When you want to have sex, consider it as “fuck” not as making love. Be vulgar both in verbal and action. Don’t mix romance in fuck.

Obaidul Karim Khan

Danish small business owner, sexuality educator, blogger, founder of this site. Top writer on Quora and Medium. Provide sex education and counseling. as a volunteer. I follow always the latest research about sex