Getting bored in your relationship? Spice up both your romance and sex life

Everyone sometimes feels bored in a relationship. Boredom is quite a natural reaction. You may feel exhausted once in a while. You don’t feel excited to make love. It happens to anyone; even to one who has a very attractive partner.  You must spice up your relationship. Spicing up your sex life is equally important

Refresh your relationship:

When you first time fall in love, you are in a dream world. Everything seems wonderful. You feel that your partner is the most attractive person in the world. But this amazing feeling does not last very long unless you take the initiative to renew your relationship.

If you are stuck in the same routine every day, you will be bored. You cannot eat the same food even it is delicious. You need variations of taste.

You need time only for yourself even you are in a relationship. It is not a bad idea if you eat out alone or go on a long drive to refresh your mind sometimes

When you are out of home for some days,  you will miss my wife. When I come home everything feels just good. To stay together all the time is not a good idea.

 If both of you are feeling very bored, then take a vacation somewhere. You are together but you are in a new environment. That helps. You can explore new things together, you two can have fun in a different way. That refresh a relationship when you have adventure and excitement together.

When you are home, you got to come out from the tight routine. You have to do something new every day. You play a new game together. You go somewhere and eat something new.

You should not talk about the same topic every day. Don’t talk always about shopping, job, and money.  There are plenty of other things to talk about.

Boredom is a normal emotion. Don’t exaggerate it.  There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Every relationship suffers from tension and stress. You have to listen to your heart. You love your wife. She loves you, too.  You have to renew your love by doing new things.

Many men find all other women except their wives attractive. You may have this kind of feeling, too. It is just a temporary diversion of mind. The reality is, your wife is beautiful but sometimes you can’t see that.

Spice up your sex life:

You have to spice up your sex life. You must try different experiments in different sex positions.

Sex is the ultimate body-mind pleasure. You got to make the most pleasant feelings.

You have to talk and communicate with each other.  Find out which places, which sex positions are pleasurable for you.

Open up your fantasies:

Don’t hesitate or feel shy to talk about sexual fantasies even those feel bizarre.  You may have a fantasy to be her sex slave or vice versa.  You may like anal stimulation. She may enjoy using a butt plug when you penetrate.

Discover new funs in the bedroom:

There are a lot of sex games you play together in the bedroom. Here is an example:

One popular game:  Prisoner of the night
You need handcuffs, neckties, and wand to play it.


This game involves obeying instructions, punishments, and commands if you lose. You can dominate your partner to do all to please you. It can also go the other way around.

Sex toys

Sex toys are a great way to spice up your sex life. Nowadays many modern and advanced sex toys are available.

Toys can make G spot orgasm, clitoral stimulation, anal stimulation in such a great way that you can only dream about.

Make love in different places:

You can have both indoor and outdoor sex. You can do it anywhere home- in the kitchen, in the bathroom and also in the car.

You can also try on the beach or under the tree.

Repetition of the same way of having sex can be boring

Obaidul Karim Khan

Danish small business owner, sexuality educator, blogger, founder of this site. Top writer on Quora and Medium. Provide sex education and counseling. as a volunteer. I follow always the latest research about sex